feat: token usage toggle (setting + /usage command) + timestamp fixes

Token usage display:
- Add 'show_token_usage' boolean to settings (default: false, off by default)
- Settings panel: checkbox 'Show token usage after responses'
- /usage slash command: instant toggle with toast feedback, persists to
  server, updates checkbox if settings panel is open, re-renders messages
- Boot: load show_token_usage alongside send_key on startup
- ui.js: gate usage badge on window._showTokenUsage flag

Timestamps:
- streaming.py: stamp 'timestamp' on every message that lacks one at
  conversation completion; old messages (no timestamp field) now get a
  wall-clock time the first time they're touched by a new turn
- messages.js: stamp _ts on the last assistant message at done-event time
  so the time shows immediately on the current turn before next reload
- Timestamps already render in the UI (Sprint 14): faint time on each
  role header line, full opacity on hover, full date in title tooltip

static/index.html

@@ -324,6 +324,13 @@
           <option value="ctrl+enter">Ctrl+Enter (Enter for newline)</option>
         </select>
       </div>
+      <div class="settings-field">
+        <label style="display:flex;align-items:center;gap:8px;cursor:pointer">
+          <input type="checkbox" id="settingsShowTokenUsage" style="width:15px;height:15px;accent-color:var(--accent)">
+          Show token usage after responses
+        </label>
+        <div style="font-size:11px;color:var(--muted);margin-top:4px">Displays input/output token count below each assistant reply. Also toggled with <code>/usage</code>.</div>
+      </div>
       <div class="settings-field" style="border-top:1px solid var(--border);padding-top:12px;margin-top:8px">
         <label for="settingsPassword">Access Password</label>
         <div style="font-size:11px;color:var(--muted);margin-bottom:6px">Enter a new password to set or change it. Leave blank to keep current setting.</div>